Choosing the perfect song for the mother-son dance is an important part of any wedding celebration.

When planning the ceremony, some tend to choose timeless classics or modern hits to capture the emotional essence of the special moment.

Dominic Fournier, co-founder of Wedding Duo and wedding DJ for over 15 years, said Newsweek that finding the perfect song for the mother-son dance is no easy task. He recommended that song selectors ask themselves a few questions to guide them in the right direction.

Fournier, who runs his wedding business with his wife Serena, said: “If you like country music, I’m not going to recommend a pop song to you.”

For sons who have a close relationship with their mother, there are songs that can evoke an emotional response from guests, Fournier said, but if they don’t feel as close a connection, a more general song would be a better choice.

“If the groom’s mother is the one choosing the song, she may want an artist to sing about her relationship with her son. But if the groom is in charge of choosing the songs, he may want a song from his perspective,” he added.

Most popular mother-son wedding dance songs

• “You’ll Be in My Heart” by Phil Collins
• “Don’t Blink” by Kenny Chesney
• “My Wish” by Rascal Flatts
• “Boy” by Lee Brice
• “Humble and Kind” by Tim McGraw
• “I Hope You Dance” by Lee Ann Womack
• “You Raise Me Up” by Josh Groban
• “Her Little Man” by Jami Grooms
• “Mother” by Michael Bublé
• “Never Alone” by Jim Brickman with Lady A

Unique songs for a mother-son wedding dance

Rachel Marturello, owner of Good Times Styled Events and lead planner, said: Newsweek that the mother-son dance is an often overlooked part of the wedding.

She said: “We think about the tradition of giving away the bride, but we lose sight of the fact that a mother also gives away her son.”

“For me, this is such a touching moment and one that I feel is not given enough gratitude or attention in many wedding ceremonies.”

Here are some unique song choices for a mother-son dance that Marturello has heard:

• “Hit the Road Jack” by Ray Charles
• “Mama” by the Spice Girls
• “Mama Tried” by Merle Haggard
• “Just the Two of Us” by Will Smith
• “I’ll Be There” by the Jackson 5
• “Mom” by Earth, Wind & Fire
• “The Perfect Fan” by the Backstreet Boys
• “You Are My Sunshine” by Johnny Cash
• “Dear Mama” by 2Pac
• “Count on Me” by Bruno Mars

“I usually see the groom’s mother choosing the song for the mother-son dance. I always tell my grooms to go to dinner with their mother and take the time to choose a song together that reflects their unique relationship,” Marturello said.

Recommended mother son wedding dance songs by a wedding DJ

Mother and son don’t have to worry about the length of the song, said Fournier: “Some people don’t like being in the spotlight or want to stand on the dance floor for four and a half minutes and have everyone stare at them.”

“I hear from couples who tell me about a song they would like to play at their wedding, but (in their opinion) it is too long,” he added.

Fournier recommends selecting a song and instructing the DJ to look for a place in the music where it can be faded out.

For a mother-son dance, Fournier recommends a classic song. Here are 10 of his favorites:

• “In My Life” by the Beatles
• “Wildflowers” ​​by Tom Petty
• “Lean on Me” by Bill Withers
• “What a Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong
• “You Have a Friend” by James Taylor
• “Stand by Me” by Ben E. King
• “Into the Mystic” by Van Morrison
• “Have I Told You Lately (Unplugged Version)” by Rod Stewart
• “Simple Man” by Lynyrd Skynyrd
• “Unforgettable” by Nat King Cole and Natalie Cole

The perfect mother-son dance song can set the tone for a memorable and touching moment during a wedding celebration. Whether it’s a timeless classic or a modern hit, the song should reflect the unique relationship between the groom and his mother.